SecretsToDatingSuccess.com: Sex Test

The Sex Test
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Is the physical side of your relationship all that it could be? Are you missing out on the benefits and pleasures that you could be enjoying? Sex makes a couple closer through shared vulnerability and nakedness of the soul as well as the body. Take our test and see what might be possible. Did you know that making love is known to create endorphins that make you feel good, build your immune system, and keep you young? Not a bad trade-off for something that's so fun.
Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view.
Possible answers:
9 - 7 = definitely true
6 - 4 = moderately true
3 - 1 = not at all true

1. I feel comfortable being naked in front of my partner.

definitely true

moderately true

not at all true

2. I tell my partner, in loving ways, what I like them to do to me.

9
8
7
6
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3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

3. I like experimenting with new ways to make love.

9
8
7
6
5
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3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

4. I like doing things to my partner that they enjoy.

9
8
7
6
5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

5. I sleep naked or in things that make me feel attractive, sensual and sexy.

9
8
7
6
5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

6. I like my body.

9
8
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6
5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

7. I like being spontaneous and say yes to opportunities to make love with my partner.

9
8
7
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5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

8. I enjoy all the sensual aspects of lovemaking; sight, sound, touch, smell, taste.

9
8
7
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5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

9. I experience a deep connection with my partner when we make love.

9
8
7
6
5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

10. It's good for lovemaking to vary from fun to deeply spiritual.

9
8
7
6
5
4
3
2
1

definitely true moderately true not at all true

Scoring
70 - 90
The higher you score, the more comfortable and open you are to all that's possible for you and your lover and the deeper your connection.
40 - 60
If you score in the mid-range, you're a bit inhibited but probably enjoying yourselves. If you stretch the boundaries of your comfort level you will discover how much better it can be.
0 - 30
If you score in the lowest range, your discomfort with sex is getting in the way of creating a richer, deeper level of intimacy. Determine what baby-steps you can take to be more comfortable and if you can, talk with your partner about helping you move to the next level. It can be a very sweet journey.